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Tasks for every day

"According to my tradition, from the beginning of creation every 
morning, when the sun comes up, we are each given for tasks by our Creator for that day.
 First, I must learn at least one meaningful thing today.
 Second, I must teach at least one meaningful thing to another person.
 Third, I must do something for some other person, and it will be best 
if that person does not even realize that I have done something for him.
And, fourth, I must treat all living thing with respect."
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What is peace

What is peace

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13Life laws from Markez


13 Life laws from Markez

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Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you?
Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone.

Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.
Don't look for their faults, even if you have none.
Encourage their dreams, what would we be without them?
Forgive them, you just MAY do something wrong sometime.
Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
Have faith in them, the human animal is remarkable.
Include them, you may need to be included sometime.
Just be there when they need you.
Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
Love them unconditionally, that is the ONLY condition.
Make them feel special, because aren't we ALL special?
Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten?
Offer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness.
Praise them honestly and openly.
Quietly disagree, noisy NO's make enemies.
Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm.
Say you're sorry, don't let them assume it.
Talk frequently, communication is important.
Use good judgment.
Verbalize your feelings!
Wish them luck, hopefully good!
Xamine your motives before you "help" out.
Your words count, use them wisely.
Zip your lips when told a secret.

By following these ABC's as often as you are

able, you SHOULD live a LONG and friend-

filled life.

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Conceivability arguments: from substance-dualism to property dualism. Phenomenal concepts: denying the conceivability-possibility link. Conceivability and the epistemic/ontic divide: two-dimensional semantics. The inconceivability of zombies.

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Mayonnaise jar

when things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar. A professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and filled it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. The sand filled up everything else. He asked  them if the jar was full. They responded "yes" The professor then produced two cups of coffee and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. professor: Now, I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things-your God, family, friends, your health, and your favorite passions-things, which-if everything else was lost and only they remain!     ed-your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job,house,car.The sand is every thing else-the small stuff.If you put the sand into the jar first,there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.The same goes for life.If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,you will never have room for the things that are important.Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.Take your wife out to dinner.There's always time to clean the house and fix the disposal.Take care of the golf balls first,the things that really matter.Set your priorities.The rest is just sand.One of the students asked what the coffee represented?The professor smiled."I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.

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Life's finiteness and finality

Having trouble resisting the urge to slack off? It might help to remember these words of Victor Frankl, founder of one of the Vienna schools of psychology:

``Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!'' It seems that there is nothing that would stimulate a man's sense of responsible ness more than this maxim, which invites him to imagine first that the present is past and, second, that the past may yet be changed and amended. Such a precept confronts him with life's finiteness as well as the finality of what he makes out of both his life and himself.

--Victor Frankl, "Logotherapy in a Nutshell",
Man's Search for Meaning.

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Life is not a race

When you run so fast to get somewhere you miss half the fun of getting there. When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like AN UNOPENED GIFT... THROWN AWAY! LIFE is NOT a race! Do take it slower Hear the Music Before the song is over!

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